Getting Married Due to Misunderstanding
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In Psychology, we learned to understand that simple things can have a big influence, as simple as parenting patterns with children who are still infants can affect the behavior of a child in socializing with others as adults. It is also in Psychology that we learn to understand that, the past may have an effect on who we are today, but we are human beings who are empowered against ourselves. We can choose to be restrained with the past or accept and learn from the past to live a new sheet better. However, there will be no news from the past. 

The campus environment also supports its students to develop during the lecture period. His friends are also exciting and blending, peer group must always be at every level of education. But it is not a limitation in Psychology majors to not hang out with friends from other peer groups. Seniority on campus is no longer in its infancy. Both the elder brother and the younger brother level were all collaborative. Lecturers are also not only academic practitioners, but many who apply directly what they talk about in their daily behavior on campus. Source: quora.

And ever since I entered psychology college, I've been like a newborn. I just got a friend, a friend and a sincerely supportive environment. Even if my family is still flat like a walking board. But at least there have been a lot of changes in my life. I'll leave for Turkey later tonight. Alesha failed to persuade Mama and Papa to deliver me. I shouldn't have expected much more if my parents would be that good. They are very nice, but unfortunately not for me. 

Mr. Shivan is teaching developmental psychology. He explained it in such detail. While Hafizha was not able to understand all the material given by Mr. Shivan. Even though Hafizha is very active tips on wanting a good looking candidate but not applicable to Mr. Shivan. According to Hafizha, handsome men like Mr. Shivan do need to be blacklisted from his life. This when he taught his tone material too firmly almost many say too fierce. So our hearing and brain have to capture as much detail as possible.

"We're going to talk about growth. Alisha, what do you know about growth?" mr. Shivan asked me, I'm sitting in the second seat. All teachers know all their students very well. Not infrequently they also know the character and personality of each of us. Except with me. I'm so closed to everything. 

And Mr. Shivan once told us, when we were only three months in the first semester. "I was very easy to analyze the character and personality of people around me, but strangely I could not know the character of Alisha well. When I thought Alisha was A it wasn't, when I thought B turned out to be wrong big."

"Characters like Alisha are hard to guess. But I'm sure that Alisha's MBTI is INFJ." He said about a year ago.

"Changes are quantitatively natural in physical/physical terms and indicate a new specific function of the organism/individual."

"Growth (Growth) is concerned with the problem of changes in the size, number of sizes or dimensions of the level of cells, organs and individuals, which can be measured by the size of weight (grams, pounds), measures of length (cm, inchi), bone age and metabolic balance (body calcium and nitrogen retention)."

"Example: Gaining height, gaining weight and growing glands ***." Clearly in detail. Mr. Shivan is young. He's about 29 years old. He has been a lecturer for two years. 

"I'm not sure that Mr. Shivan doesn't feel the same way about you!" raffasya whispered, because he was sitting right on my right.

"Don't think weird." I said remind. 

"What Alisha explained is very true." Said Mr. Shivan.

"And now about development. Development is the increase in the ability (skill) in the structure and function of the body more complex in an orderly and predictable pattern, as a result of the process of maturation."

"Development concerns the process of differentiation of body cells, body tissues, organs and organ systems that develop in such a way that each can fulfill its function."

"Including emotional, intellectual and behavioral development as a result of interaction with the environment."

"Development is defined as the change experienced by an individual or organism towards the level of maturity (maturity) that takes place systematically, progressively and continuously both physically and psychically. Example: Attitudes of feelings and emotions, interests, ideals and personality of a person." Clearly in great detail. And much more is explained, not forgetting to give the task. After that Mr. Shivan left the class after the hour was over. (Source Abu Layla Supry). 

"Alisha, are you sure that Mr. Shivan doesn't have the same feelings as you?" ask Hafizha quite curious. I've said before, if my friends are better suited to be judges at the green table than a lecture du psychologist.

"Well, how could he like me." Obviously I avoided everything that these two people had in mind. Hafizha sat to my left.

"Every time you teach, his eyes are always focused on you, Al." Azura said still clinging to her principles. Though I have explained several times it is very impossible for a Shivan Arrasya to fall in love with a takotan girl like me. 

"Not everything you think is true." I said I was still trying to explain it according to logic and theory.

"Remember one thing! the character of the human mind? there are three basic characteristics, which are unreal, temporary and fragile."

"That thought is not reality, Hafizha. It is a response to reality. The mind is built on a conceptual abstraction of reality. The mind is temporary too. It comes, it goes, and it changes. The weather changes, and the mind changes. When hungry, the mind weakens. And conversely, when the stomach is full, the mind works more optimally."

"And that means that it can be affirmed the next feature, that the mind is fragile. What

what we think is not true at all. In fact, our belief in our thoughts tends to lead us to mistakes and suffering, both the suffering of ourselves and others." 

"Our mind is very volatile, and this clearly signifies the fragility of all our thought forms. And what do you say is a hundred percent big mistake." Obviously I made Azura chuckle when she heard the overly detailed explanation of ki. It turned out that he had been listening to my explanation. 

"You've been hanging out for a long time with Mr. Shivan. Don't you guys get married again?" said Azura whose brain was getting clear thinking.

"Everybody is Alisha." I said I made the three of them laugh. Today Shabiya did not enter because he was sick. 

"The clarification should not be too long Al," said Raffasya. 

"Whatever journal you read just to explain this, you can't change anything. Including Mr. Shivan's feelings for you." The next is getting beyond reason. I am one of those people who when I like people I will try to stay away from. 

So if anyone likes me, don't let me know. If you want to approach me, approach me until nyama. But the conditions are not to let me know, or the closest people I know. Because if that happened, then before he managed to knock me out, I would have avoided it first. As if the story has not yet begun, it is over. 

"And the second possibility makes the most sense. It could be that he was watching me, so that later he could approach Alesha easily. Because approaching an insider who had a big influence on Alesha was faster to succeed. Rather than approaching the person."

"Who doesn't like Alesha? Aren't you?" my question made them shut up. Raffasya just shook his head.

"As far as you are Al, how would you like. I, as a man, cannot accept your logical reasoning. Even if it's a journal." Rafasya. Actually, the kid has a problem what the hell? Everything I explained was rejected.

"Jude, I'm just explaining what I understand. It's not your intention to agree with me." I said. 

"Oh yeah Al, it's been almost two weeks since Alesha's engagement. Mama and Papa I'll make your decision." The word Raffasya made me remember the last time I met Raffasya's family for the first time.

"What decision?" the three of us asked including Azura and Hafizha. 

"The matchmaking decision between the two of us, Alisha. You forgot?" clearly Raffasya was a bit pressurizing.

"Why didn't you tell Al you wanted to be fooled?" ask Azura. 

"So that's real? I thought I was just kidding." I answered casually.

"Yes that's real. Try Al first?" the word Raffasya increasingly makes my vocabulary run out. What do I have to reason with again? 

"Don't be crazy Raf, I never thought of marriage as my best friend. Especially at my young age." I said.

"We live in Indonesia. Your age is legal for marriage, Alisha. You're 19 years old, right?" said Hafizha instead participated in becoming a successful matchmaking team between me and Raffasya. On my side, I have not yet agreed. I can't imagine if married to my own best friend, must be awward once.

"Yes more than a month. I still don't want to get married." My answer made Azura pinch my arm quite hard. Makes me grimace.  

"Why do you mind accepting our parents' matchmaking? Is there anyone you like?" ask Raffasya. I wonder, why Raffasya wants to get married quickly anyway? The tone is loh, ngebet want marriage. 

"Yes because I can't, sorry Raff. Married young are not as beautiful as the fyp or Instagram reels. There are many things to go through with a mature mind. Even if my parents can afford the wedding expenses, but mentally I'm not necessarily ready. And the second reason is because I still have feelings for someone." I made them agree. 

"Oh yeah I almost forgot. Isya I'm leaving for Turkey tonight. If you don't have any events or activities, can I ask for help, anterin me to the airport?"

"It could be dong, but we can't nemenin in Turkey. I really want to travel to Turkey. But I don't have any more money." Azura said so melancholy. 

"Yaudah, sometime the six of us go to Turkey together. Agreed no?" asked Raffasya while rubbing Azura's shoulder. 

"Again" said the three of us. Azura was the most enthusiastic.

"The rich man said a sat-set. Ngajakin to Turkey aja, kayak ngajakin buy seblak in his stall Mak Deno." Azura. 

"Who is Mak Deno?" ask Raffasya.

"That's my cosan front man. Raf, rather than you ngajakin Alisha married, but rejected. I better be the one getting married. I will not refuse. Seriously." Azura said jokingly putting on a serious face.

"No, no,"

"People on why the heck, well-liked by the mainstream demand." Chirps Azura while sighing. I smiled knots at Azura. 

"Ra, don't be so sad! You'll be fine. Oh yeah, I'll leave after Isya. Raf, please take care of Azura with Hafizha." I said make Azura hug me.

"Should it be tonight?" azura asked as if it was hard to let go of me. This Azura was always exaggerated in response to something. But I never thought it was excessive. 

I know exactly what kind of Azura family background I am. From a young age, he lived in an orphanage. Her parents are out of nowhere. Never let him get affection from his parents. Azura had never seen what the faces of her parents were like. That is why Azura often spoiled with us. Even Azura did not know, still had a family or not. Azura was always cheerful, hyperactive and childish. It was all because he wanted to have love. 

"Well, if we go home now. Ra, do you want me to anterin what? Or want to be taken with Raffasya. Who knows, you could get Raffasya."

"Just like you," after that we split up. 

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...To be continued ...

...Alisha is sensitive to her surroundings, she cares about everyone. But unfortunately no one is sensitive to his feelings. ...