Love on the verge of suffering

Love on the verge of suffering
Doctor Alwi


After Zara was sure to calm down, and also Zifa and Alwi a little light storytelling so that they did not sleepy, while Anna's mother, had gone to rest. It was because Zifa asked for it, pity if Anna's mother was lacking rest, because at noon there would be a lot of work that Anna's mother had to do.


"So I'm not down Dok syndrome?" asked Zifa, actually she was not too surprised anyway, where Kemal also yesterday-yesterday was convinced that Zifa is not Down Syndrome.


"Did your sister do physical pecking, IQ and so on?" ask Alwi.


Zifa shook her head, and it was true that inadequate economic conditions were just enough to eat to force the mother to take Zara's condition for granted.


"That means just a guess, right? Do you know the physical characteristics of people with genetic disorders?" ask Alwi again.


Zifa shook her head again. "Mother said, and I knew from the neighbors that Kak Zara was suffering from Down Syndrome" Zifa said truthfully.


Alwi laughed crisply. "Such like this happens often. Self-diagnosis without examination and the science of fall of public trickery. The characteristics of Down Syndrome sufferers are actually from the physical can already be seen. And the first time I saw your sister's physique, there wasn't a single one that showed that she had a genetic disorder. Yes down syndrome partly occurs due to failure of egg division/sp*rma. Where the characteristics are usually, a pug nose, a large head, a short body, eyes, small ears and so on. Does your sister's body have any of those features?"


Zifa shook her head, there is relief that her brother is not Down Syndrome. "But if it's not Down Syndrome then Zara's sister why?" ask Zifa.


"Duganku and usually true also without having more checks, but if you want to be sure there should be a thorough examination of IQ and so forth. But if I see that your sister only has Mental Retardation where IQ is low and intellectual and adaptation is lacking or even not allowed to adapt to the outside environment by your mother/father. Where she has trouble adjusting in everyday life. Such as learning, talking, adapting in social and physical. It needs to be understood, either or the lack of development of the person with mental retardation depends on the surrounding environment. This means that the family plays a big role in supporting and helping children become independent. Both parents or siblings must be able to accept the limitations of children to carry out proper parenting and according to their needs. Children with mental retardation in the mild category can continue to be trained so that they can live independently. That way, he will not depend on others. If you overindulge it without giving any ability, it can backfire in the future of children, and the answer is in you. How your family treated Zara at home first, you know better." Doctor Alwi who has been educated for more than ten years to deepen with psychiatric knowledge is certainly very familiar with the case of Zara.


Zifa admitted that her mother did not provide training to her brother, as long as her brother was silent mother did not become a problem with his attitude which is considered a person like crazy and so forth. And consequently now his older brother has difficulty processing his memory, and it is difficult to interpret that there is a reality or his imagination alone.


"But a case like Kak Zara can roughly be handled, Doc?" ask Zara to make sure she thinks calm.


"It can be easier because basically low IQ can be improved of course with exercise, light therapies, and Zara can certainly do it" replied Alwi confidently


Zifa was a little relieved by the explanation of the doctor Alwi. And there was great hope that her brother would live normally.


#That is the importance of Ifa science, do not diagnose from his words let alone the word neighbors already fatal, so wrong handling#


"Ifa, I say go home first well, and for a while for your sister's therapy later I will take over, but if everything is safe, then everything is safe, and he can calm down there is no excessive anxiety like that, then for the next therapy can be taken over again by Anna's mother, I will only occasionally come to check on your sister's development. I'm sure Zara is a great woman, for sure everything will go the way you want.just need patience everything will be fine," Doctor Alwi gave Zifa motive and encouragement so that she would not be discouraged, and sure enough Zifa was now more relieved and could be calmer.


"Thank you Bang for the explanation from Abang now Zifa is a little relieved, and Zifa is increasingly convinced that everything Zifa wants will be achieved, hopefully Zifa can be given the smoothness to seek this justice," said Zifa before Alwi really saying goodbye to go home. Now Zifa called Alwi not a doctor anymore, because Alwi who rejected him as a mental health specialist (SpKJ) Psychiatrist wanted to be called as Abang, with the reason to look familiar.


*****


While in other places Alwi could not fall asleep, he remembered his ex-wife and son who had gone home. Although the incident had lasted long enough that it had lasted for five years but the incident could not be forgotten Alwi.


Remembering the flight where he first met his wife, the woman who five years accompanied him to knit her beautiful marriage, Kia used to be a victim of rape who was depressed and treated to him. Because pity to see the girl who almost crazy because of rape by people who are not known, and not responsible, especially the girl named Kia was pregnant. Alwi who had fallen in love with the girl at the first time checked himself on her and pity that knowing she was pregnant would be more depressed, Alwi decided to marry the girl. Their household goes harmoniously after Kia recovers from her depression and is gifted with a beautiful daughter named Mecca, but the happiness of her household must be forcibly snatched away by a cruel destiny.


Kia and Mecca, who were about to pick up Alwi at the airport, were in a car accident and both lost their lives at the scene. The clouds were pitch black when Alwi, who was waiting at the airport, was called by police and told what had happened to his wife and children.


Although Mecca was not her flesh and blood, but Alwi's affection had exceeded everything, and at that time where Mecca who was only four years old and middle funny and her taffy must Alwi relinquish the divine lap, along with Kia, a wife who can always make Alwi proud of her patience.


"Kia, Mecca papah kangen dear, be the angel of heaven for papah yah," the inner Alwi who thought back to remember the event, and now he was found again with the girl who fared the same, and now he was reunited with the girl, but Zara's case is more complicated than Kia's, so it will take a long time. Unless the miracle of God comes to Zara.


*****


The morning before Zifa's eyes still felt heavy as the body she had been hugging moved and woke herself up.


"Ifa, bobo here?" zara asked with a happy radiant face when she woke up and there was her sister who was hugging her.


"Sister is awake, yes sorry ifa came home from school at night, so I've bobo Ifa just came home," replied Zifa with eyes still closed, he still has heavy eyes because he only slept a few hours ago, and now he has to wake up because his brother is awake. Zifa will train her brother to bathe himself and it's all Anna's mother who teaches, indeed before Zifa also sometimes bathe alone just bath less clean when alone, if alone, so from there it became a habit to bathe continuously and make Zara lazy to bathe herself.


"Ifa, Ara is hungry" said Zara, where she would starve in the morning, sometimes waking up to her starving baby in there. Zifa who had prepared everything also took a pack of rops with a sense of Zara's favorite setrobery. "Son't eat bread first?" ask Zifa while giving Zara's favorite bread.


"More Ifa." Zara enthusiastically offered her hand so that Zifa would immediately give the bread. "Enak Ifa, Ifa Mau?" Zara offered Zifa a bread pack that she might want with the bread that Zara was eating.


"No, just make brother, Zifa is full." Zifa refused so that Zara, who is so, looks very much from the way Zara ate very starving, very hungry, where in the stomach there are two lives so that Zifa must buy more sets of food for her brother when waking up in the middle of the night or this morning where the food for breakfast is not ready. Zara can eat snacks or stuffing food so that her children do not starve.


"Hopefully what Doctor Alwi said was right, brother can definitely live normally" Zifa said as she continued to look at Zara who was still busy chewing bread.