Hijrah The Love
37. Choosing Taaruf
He was the man who was present at the dawn.
...The sun whose light is illuminating....
...He's a man who always prostrates in Dhuha time....
...The tub of hope that always shines colors a heart buried in wounds....
...He who memorizes the love letters of the owner of the soul....
...Like a prince who is carving his most beautiful crown in heaven....
...He made obedience the way of life....
...Tubs of fallen foliage that always obey the wind that blows....
Him, her,
...Is he the love that God promised to a goddess of twilight?...
Resti and Yulia smiled looking at Dusk who was confused. I don't know in what way they can dive into the feelings of soft-hearted women whose beauty is not inferior to the Indonesian princess. For them, the confusion felt by Dusk is not a complicated time. However, for Dusk, everything was very complicated.
Dusk stared back at Resti and Yulia. His two best friends are now grim.
"So what do you think?" twilight asked, His round eyes narrowed, curious about the advice of his two best friends.
"Aye, anyway, yes. Don't know you are Anang," said Yulia, looking at Resti, who was smiling.
"Hmmmm, actually married to the hafiz of the Quran of my dreams. So, I must be yes. Who wouldn't want to, try?"
"Lagian, Mpok Dusk a lot of thought. Later the handsome hafiz turned to akyu, how?" yulia said again.
"Not thinking much. This is something to think about. Dusk felt not steady just. rather, not appropriate,"
"What's important, isn't it, the dawn will." Resti tried to make sure.
"Well, that's right. Before he changed his mind, the hunt was on, dah," Yulia said.
"Wedding should be rushed? Remember, didn't Kang Athar say? The marriage must be prepared, do not be hasty."
"But this is good intentions not just anyone." Resti's back to trying to convince."
" The dusk of a man is a good, godly man, and a vision."
"Emang Fajar is not sevision?" ask Yulia.
"Kan, Dusk does not know his vision and life plan how."
"Yes, find out then, Mpok," said Yulia again.
"That means ta'aruf first, don't get married." Resti provides solutions.
Dusk immediately nodded.
"Well, that means. Dusk wants ta'aruf first," said Dusk as he raised his thumb.
"What is the plan for the future of Dusk?" tanya Resti was curious.
"Senja is also still the plan of life Dusk in the future, and still confused," replied Dusk.
"End, right, women live with men. Follow the priest" said Yulia.
"Yes, we cannot do that. we need to know the plan of our prospective priests in the future as to which.we also have the right to choose a life plan according to our role," replied Dusk did not want to lose.
"Yes, yes, as we do premarital salary, the appropriateness of the vision is important for the permanence of marriage," Resti began to understand the mind of Dusk.
"Yes, if you just follow your wishes, honestly, Dusk wants to marry Kang Dawn. Udah pious, saucy, good, childhood friend, it's been work, less what else, try?"
"Hadeeeeeeeehhhhhh, euuuyyyyy..,.," cried Resti and Yulia compact.
"Keep, he memorizes the Qur'an, again."
"Hadeeeeeeeeehh, euyy....."
"Lh, what the hell, hadeeeh, that hadeeeh....."
" Hadeeeeeeh. Somebody wants ta'aruf, nih, cieeee......" Yulia kept teasing.
Dusk immediately threw the pillow he had been holding towards Yulia. Yulia managed to dodge in style. Resti and Dusk laughed at his behavior.
"Yes, yes, insyaallah, Dusk Will ta'aruf Sama Kang Fajar. satusssss?" Now Dusk glared towards Yulia.
Yulia then stood up, giving a speech like Mama Dede who was advising her upset mother in the TV studio.
"Listen .... listen aye, yes. anyway you guys, yes, according to the aye view, nih, cocooooookkkkk. The story of the two of you is so sweet. like the fairy tales of romance. A childhood friend who eventually gets married. Uuuuhhhh. And, once you get married later, you can make a baper. It will break the hearts of all singles who live on Instagram. It will be National Heartbreak Day! Hamish and Raisa, Lewaaaaat!!!!" Yulia raucous, making Resti and Dusk laugh.
"Just don't think so. Publicity is not important. The Rida of God is important. Just pray in the process of ta'arufnya, which is clearly the answer from God."
"Aamiyin....."
Resti and Yulia compact pray. dusk smile to his two best friends. In his heart he felt lucky to have a friend who was always willing to listen to his story. Immediately after discussing with his two best friends, Dusk gave news to Mang Didin and Mother. That, he. wanted Ta'aruf first with Kang Dawn. Mang Didin and I agree with the idea.
Dusk recalled a message from Kang Athar about ta'aruf when he joined the Assembly of Love.
"Ta'aruf that's not a bond. Nor is it part of the marriage pillar. ta'aruf is a method to know each other until finally awakened confidence before heading to a more serious stage, namely sermons and marriage. Ta'aruf must be facilitated by an intermediary, and done within a certain agreed time period.after the time of ta'aruf ends, both parties have the right to decide whether or not to proceed to the sermon and marriage stage."
